About Ross Simmonds. Ross Simmonds is a digital marketing strategist who has worked with everything from Fortune 500 companies to startups to drive results using digital marketing and technology.
Life is beautiful if you have the vision to see it. However, in this post, I’m going to share some harsh truths about life. I think you’re already aware of that truth, if yes, then this post would be a remainder.
- About Ross Simmonds. Ross Simmonds is a digital marketing strategist who has worked with everything from Fortune 500 companies to startups to drive results using digital marketing and technology.
- “But it turned out life was more like the kind of song the Stones wrote: you didn't get any satisfaction, you took one hit to the body after another, if you were a woman you were a bitch who belonged under someone's thumb, and if you wanted mother's little helper from your dear doctor you better have the silver, take it or leave it, and don't come crying for sympathy, that was just for the.
- #YouTubeFandomHonestyHour was trending on Twitter for, well, a lot longer than an hour (In fact, some people are still posting). And through the thousands of Tweets we've seen when perusing the hashtag, a lot of the same issues keep coming up. Here are just ten different truths that people have to.
- I don't know too many people who enjoy facing the harsh truths about life. There are so many of us wandering around lost, trying to find our purpose.
So, what are the 5 harsh truths of life? Let’s discuss them one by one. But before we start let me tell you one thing that I have no intention to discourage your people.
The purposeof writing this article is to make you aware of the reality and encourage youto achieve your dreams with full potential. See, hard work can change anyone’slife.
Most people will leave you alone in your hard times
There’s a shortage of water but not of fake people. They are everywhere around you. Such people will stick with you in your good times and leaves you in bad times.
I know you want to ask, “Newtan, how to find them out?” It’s really simple my friend, “Observation” Yes, it’s a powerful equipment that works silently. You can observe the behavior of people.
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However, what you have to observe?
- Why and when they meet you?
- What do they talk about other people?
- Are they interested in your material or not?
- Do they argue on small matters?
- Do they want you to be away from your loved ones?
- Do they teach you bad things?
- Are they using your materials?
If most of your answers (except 1 and 2) is YES, then you need to rethink about them. Why rethink just kick them out of your life, it’s simple as that.
Even it’s important because they add no value to your life. Moreover, they’ll leave you in your bad times.
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People heed successful people
It’s a harsh truth of life that has frozen me when I came to know about it. The world ran before successful people, it means that if you’re less successful then, of course, people will not give you respect.
My advice toevery 20s and 30s. Hustle, until you succeed, not because people will love youbut it’s important to make your life comfortable and happy.
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Nowadays there’s a trend going on, I mean people are busy looking rich and successful. This trend is so popular that even teenagers are going on the same track.
However, they have forgotten that A LION doesn’t need to prove that he is the king of the jungle.
Your goal should be tobecome rich and successful not to look successful. You’ll get nothing in boasting, instead, you’ll lose your money and happiness in impressing people.
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You’ll fail many times
Failure is not the opposite of success;it’s a part of success. Failures are the stairs that will lead you to success destination. In myopinion, setbacksare important because it directs you to change your method of working.
Every day creates a new challenge and not possible to solve it using the same method every day.
However, youshouldn’t take any stress of failure because it could be dangerous for yourhealth. Most people think that a brilliant idea and hard work can change everything, but they don’tknow that failure is their path to success.
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What does failure want to teach you?
- You need to change your method of working.
- You need to put enough energy into the work you’re doing.
- You have to learn more.
- You have to be more creative.
- You need to improve your mistakes.
No amount of guilt can change your past, however, your never give up attitude can definitely change your future. You should live in a present and work, so that your future could improve.
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Nothing is permanent in life
Life is full of difficulties nothing is permanent here. Sadness and Happiness are relative. If you’re sad now, the other minute may bring happiness to you and vice versa.
Everything comes and goes and you can’t stop things from happening because it is similar to the natural process. It means that you can’t control it. However, you can control yourself and mold as per the situation.
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In simple words, changes take place every second, and you should walk along with it to transform yourself.
A new ‘you’ can achieve goals efficiently and more intelligently. The next second may bring a huge change in your life and should always be ready for it.
Recommended book: NOTHING IS PERMANENT
You have a limited time
Yourtime is limited and you should utilize it for important work. Rest workscan be done later. Time is worth more than Gold and Diamonds because no money canbuy it.
You got 86,400 seconds daily to complete yournecessary work. However, most people waste it and utilize it for unnecessary works.
Every secondis important. When you get tired, just go and rest but don’t waste your timefor unnecessary means.
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What are the time eaters you should alwaysavoid?
- Avoid unnecessary conversation.
- Stop roaming with friends.
- Reduce your TV time. If possible, terminate it forever.
- Unnecessary internet should be avoided.
- Procrastination and laziness are other factors that eat your precious time.
- Stop overthinking as soon as possible.
Let fake people go but don’t let your precious time go away. Time is unstoppable however; you can utilize it systematically to finish your work before the deadline.
Recommended book: Organize Tomorrow Today: 8 Ways to RetrainYour Mind to Optimize Performance
Conclusion
I know these are the harsh truth of life, but you shouldn’t take it to heart because you can be successful and happy in your life. You don’t need to prove it to anyone.
Life isbeautiful and you should enjoy it, don’t ruin your future for a single negativethought. The purpose of writing this article was to appreciate you to work withfull potential.
It’s good toknow the reality than to be in the darkness. Real and brave people never getdiscouraged. Discouragement is a fuel they use to work upon their dreams withtwice as much speed.
Thanks for taking the time to read this post.
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Life is a journey from innocence to experience and the path is not a smooth one
There are countless hurdles and the moment you overcome one, another one pops up.
It’s a known fact that life is tough, but sometimes we lose the motivation to fight. Instead of swimming, we give in and eventually drown. Stop right there
Instead of procrastinating and planning for better things, take charge of your life. Once you accept these hard-hitting truths, your approach to life will change.
1. You will eventually die
When I watched Shawshank Redemption, the dialogue “get busy living or get busy dying” was my moment of epiphany. Death is the ultimate truth. No matter how hard you try to make life perfect, it will end, and there’s no escaping that.
Off the record, if you still haven’t watched Shawshank Redemption, now is the perfect time. It’s my top 1 movie of all times. (and top 1st ranked on IMDB)
2. Everybody you know will die
You can’t let your fear of loss smother people, but you can’t take them for granted either. Everyone you know will die and so will you.
3. Wealth isn’t happiness
The best things are really for free. Material wealth is great for instant gratification but pure bliss comes from within. And if you go to chase the money, and only money, believe me… you are wasting your most precious time that will eventually end. (see #1)
4. Searching for happiness makes you lose it
Ever tried finding your favorite shirt frantically before an event and failing only to see it after the occasion is over? Apply that to life. Happiness is a butterfly that you shouldn’t chase; it will sit on your palm when you aren’t looking.
5. Spend time not money
Time is the biggest currency. Try to spend time with your loved ones, it is not important to splurge always, engage in meaningful conversations and activities. Not only think about that Time is all you have but know it. Time is really the only thing you have that is ticking away.
6. You can’t please everyone
Stop trying to do so this moment as it drains every ounce of energy left in you.
7. Accept your feelings
You are only human and it is okay to have feelings. Denying that you have emotions won’t help you get rid of them.
8. When you’re gone, you’re gone
Not everyone leaves behind something worth remembering or touches many people’s lives. Don’t bother about leaving a legacy.
9. Be responsible
Quit playing the victim and decide your destiny. Take ownership of your actions instead of blaming it all on fate.
10. Stop trying to be perfect
Nobody is perfect, so why try so hard? Such a romantic concept should be done away with. Don’t waste your life trying to live up to such ideals and accept yourself completely.
11. Don’t waste talent
It is God’s special gift and must not be wasted at any cost. Always do your best.
12. Live in the now
“We look before and after/ and pine for what is not.” These lines capture human predicament at its finest. Live in the present as planning for future or pondering over the past kills your happiness.
13. Nobody cares how hard your life is
Yes you are not alone because life is hard for everyone. Stop thinking your problems are greater and whine about it. You will definitely irritate people that way, and off the record, very, VERY few people will actually care about your problems, but they really don’t want to hear about your problems all the time.
14. Share your knowledge
Knowledge grows by sharing. Learn new things and reach out to others too.
15. Invest in yourself
As Dr. Seuss said, “no one is “youer” than you”, be the best version possible. Focus and indulge in pampering yourself once in awhile.
16. When things suck, don’t react
When something goes south, do not start playing the blame game. It is all about perspective. Try to find the silver or grey lining in every situation and focus on that.
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17. Quit dreaming and do the work
It is easy to escape into a dream world. Dreams aren’t enough to achieve your goal, perseverance and practice is the key. Do not sit and hope that things will magically take shape.
18. Time is more valuable than money
24 hours is enough if you plan it accordingly and less if you don’t focus. In our obsession with money, we forget to utilize time, the biggest resource.
19. Be grateful
You cannot achieve everything so learn to be content. Appreciate the little things in life instead of crying over what you don’t have.
20. Donate time
“Heal the world make it a better place”, it is possible by donating time to the community. Only money has no value in shaping a society.
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21. Don’t lose yourself
In the chaotic journey of life, it is easy to get carried away. Remember who you are and never give in.
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22. You can’t take money with you when you die
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Death doesn’t discriminate. If your life is a rat race of earning more and more; in the process forgetting to live, you have wasted the one gift God gave. Make time for things that matter.
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